PRACTICE / CHAPTER 18
Redesign.
The old response is always the easiest one to reach.
THE STUCK POINT / REUSABLE PRACTICE
Redesign
The setting, cue, or immediate payoff keeps making the familiar action convenient.
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Notice one cue, convenient setup, or immediate payoff.
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Change one part of the setting.
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Make the response you want easier to reach next time.
For example: Charge the laptop outside the bedroom and place a book beside the bed.
What is the practice for?
The entry point helps choose a practice. The need helps choose what comes after it. Consider what this opening makes possible for protection, connection, self-respect, choice, or meaning.
Explore what serves each needAfter you try it.
What did you do? What did it make possible? What still needs attention?
Choose a safe, manageable situation. Practical help and necessary care take priority. Educational practice adapted from Chapter 18 of The Stuck Point.
Explore the related topic