PRACTICE / CHAPTER 11
Regulate.
The feeling gets so loud, choice gets crowded out.
THE STUCK POINT / REUSABLE PRACTICE
Regulate
When the intensity rises, deciding what to do next becomes its own demand.
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Pause and look toward one ordinary object.
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Name its color and shape. Notice another object or sound.
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Decide whether there is room for one small choice or whether you need support.
For example: Notice the chair, a color in the room, and a nearby sound before deciding what comes next.
What is the practice for?
The entry point helps choose a practice. The need helps choose what comes after it. Consider what this opening makes possible for protection, connection, self-respect, choice, or meaning.
Explore what serves each needAfter you try it.
What did you do? What did it make possible? What still needs attention?
Choose a safe, manageable situation. Practical help and necessary care take priority. Educational practice adapted from Chapter 11 of The Stuck Point.
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