PRACTICE / CHAPTER 11

Regulate.

The feeling gets so loud, choice gets crowded out.

THE STUCK POINT / REUSABLE PRACTICE

Regulate

When the intensity rises, deciding what to do next becomes its own demand.

  1. 1

    Pause and look toward one ordinary object.

  2. 2

    Name its color and shape. Notice another object or sound.

  3. 3

    Decide whether there is room for one small choice or whether you need support.

For example: Notice the chair, a color in the room, and a nearby sound before deciding what comes next.

What is the practice for?

The entry point helps choose a practice. The need helps choose what comes after it. Consider what this opening makes possible for protection, connection, self-respect, choice, or meaning.

Explore what serves each need

After you try it.

What did you do? What did it make possible? What still needs attention?

Choose a safe, manageable situation. Practical help and necessary care take priority. Educational practice adapted from Chapter 11 of The Stuck Point.

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