PRACTICE / CHAPTER 17
Approach.
You know the next step. You keep waiting to feel ready.
THE STUCK POINT / REUSABLE PRACTICE
Approach
Postponing reduces the demand for a moment, while something you care about remains out of reach.
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Check whether avoidance protects a necessary boundary.
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If it mainly postpones something important, choose a safe, manageable action.
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Complete the small step, then decide what the next one needs.
For example: Open the necessary email and write its first sentence. Decide on the next step afterward.
What is the practice for?
The entry point helps choose a practice. The need helps choose what comes after it. Consider what this opening makes possible for protection, connection, self-respect, choice, or meaning.
Explore what serves each needAfter you try it.
What did you do? What did it make possible? What still needs attention?
Choose a safe, manageable situation. Practical help and necessary care take priority. Educational practice adapted from Chapter 17 of The Stuck Point.
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